Couples face challenge and undergo many pitfalls in maintaining their relationship and even then some survive to have a strong long distance relationship happy and relishing. Love is the most powerful feeling and the only reason for the survival of long distance relationships by following some do’s and don’ts. Long distance relationship are tough to maintain but not impossible. There some basic factors which need to keep in mind by the couple for a successful relationship. Love, trust, care with lot of patience is a key to hold your mate close to your heart even with the long distance and boundaries. Below some dos and don’ts of long distance relationship are compiled for the couples to strengthen their relationship.
Do’s Of Long Distance Relationship
Communicate regularly– Communication is channel which binds to heart with each other. It is very important to stay connected with each other with the long distance. When you are away from your partner and have another life of hectic office schedule or friends gathering, you tend to get into the habit of forgetting to pick up the phone. So, talking and connecting with each other is most vital thing to have a strong relationship. With new technologies there are several options of even video calling, to have an experience of face to face communication.
Hold honesty– You must be honest with your partner and then only you can expect the same from your partner. It is very important to trust your partner in long distance relationship. Be faithful about your doings and let him/her know about you and your mind exactly.
Compromise- For a strong relationship, it is must to do some compromise to strengthen your relationship. You are away from your partner and need to spend some of your expense on calling and talking. You need to skip some parties to talk to your mate and be the real lover to your partner.
Don’ts of long distance relationship
Don’t stalk– Long distance doesn’t allow you to stalk on your boyfriend. He is away from you but that does not mean he is hiding things from you and living another life without you. Communicate as much as you want but don’t make your partner paranoid of you by asking questions in every second minute. Trust your partner and let your love win above all other feelings.
Don’t Be Spiteful– If your boyfriend or girlfriend had good times with friends or opposite sex out there, then don’t be so rude and take revenge by doing the same. Trust your partner and feel happy for his/her joy.
Settle for a temporary replacement– Don’t be so impatient and make use of third party when your boyfriend is not around. You will tend to lose the trust of your partner and shaken the pillar of relationship.
Some other dos and don’ts of relationship
- DO plan your time together carefully
- DON’T be a slave to your relationship
- DO try to find a way to change things
- DON’T take any big steps before you’re ready
- Do plan to meet each other
- Don’t wait and see attitude
- Do surprise your partner
- Don’t be suspicion
- DO get to know each other’s friends
- DON’T neglect the friends you have